In Case You Were Thinking of Burning Out…


Come have a talk with me. Let me help you. I believe in the idea that a person needs to rest, recharge, and be kind to themself in order to survive and thrive.

So you’re working for the movement? You’re putting your breath and your strength behind every moment? Take a moment to do the movement a favor, then; you are clearly one of its best advocates, and all of us need you at your best!

Send me a message, in the contact form below or at feelinggoodfeminism (at) gmail (dot) com  (change the things in parentheses to their symbol and remove the spaces, yup!) and we can have a chat about what you need to restore yourself. I happen to have healed from many things over the years and have a treasure trove of solutions to heal the soul, body, and mind.

Your bravery and continuous effort is greatly valued by me. Your message will give me that same joy about feeling valued. Thank you.



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Phrases that drive me nuts, pt. 1

“Shop ’til you drop!”

I mentioned recently that I’m feeling good about the ‘#notbuyingit’ trend on Twitter. Why? Partly, because it is aimed at discouraging degrading advertising messages. Partly, because I think shopping in general has become a conspiratorial crock of crap concerned with convincing [mostly women] to waste $money$ on stuff we don’t need.

How many times have you heard in advertising that a product “adds that little something….” implying that what you already have and what you already do is not enough. I’m satisfied with my life, personally. Allowing room to grow and change, of course, but one thing I acknowledge is that buying stuff generally will not improve my life.

Why do you think people HIRE people to clear out their clutter? Possibly because they buy stuff thinking it will improve their life because they’re told so. They never use this stuff. Clutter accumulates.

Beyond that, why in the world would I want to do anything ‘until I drop’?? I don’t. I like doing fun things and then taking a break before I get overwhelmed. This statement, “shop ’til you drop” essentially advocates ignoring healthy limits.

Like budget limits. Who here is unhappy with their current financial state of affairs? And who owns an iPhone??? Who told you that you needed that iPhone more than you need to pay your (electric bill, housing, water, heat, food, doctor/medical, child’s tuition to a nice school in a safe neighborhood, retirement fund so you can live comfortably until the end of your life)?

Have you ever gone shopping long enough that your feet were ‘killing’ you and you had a headache or your eyes hurt from staring at the computer screen and your wrist had a cramp from scrolling with the mouse?

And marketing specifically targets women. If you watch daytime tv, all the commercials show women cleaning a house, preparing food, taking care of kids, or focusing on beauty (hair-skin-nails-shaving-underwear). They don’t show men in the same situation. It’s actually ridiculous to imagine, what if there were Victor’s Secret underwear ads? I have Never seen an advertisement showing women welding or building houses, or skydiving unless it’s a romantic trip. And I want to. If I do ANYTHING ‘until I drop,’ and this is going to be my manifesto!, I will dance, I will travel, I will learn really cool skills and I will take a break before I drop.

Honestly, passing out is not attractive. 🙂 So look alive, friends!

I’m feeling good about setting limits, saving money, and not watching tv…. or if I do, I’m muting ALL the commercials. Try it! It’s really refreshing!